Everyone else seems to have more. More stuff, more friends, more... everything.

Paul wrote those words from a prison cell. Not a retreat. Not a vacation. A chain. Contentment isn't having what you want. It's wanting what you have — and trusting that what you don't have, you don't need yet.

The conversation

The child: “Daddy God... everyone else seems to have more. More stuff, more friends, more... everything.”

God: “And does looking at their 'more' make you feel like you have less?”

The child: “Yes. Like I'm behind.”

God: “Paul had a shipwreck, a snakebite, a prison cell. And he said 'I've learned to be content.'”

The child: “Learned? So it didn't come naturally?”

God: “Contentment never does. It's practiced, not automatic.”

The child: “How do I practice it?”

God: “Start here: name three things you have that you didn't earn.”

The child: “...air? Love? Waking up this morning?”

God: “Now you're seeing like Paul.”

The child: “But it still feels like not enough sometimes.”

God: “That's the lie of comparison. It steals what you have by showing you what you don't.”

The child: “Paul was literally in chains when he wrote that, wasn't he?”

God: “Yes. And he was freer than most people walking around unchained.”

The child: “So contentment isn't about the situation.”

God: “It's about who's in the situation with you.”

The child: “You're here with me. That's... actually enough.”

God: “It always was. You just needed to stop counting what's missing.”

"Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content." Philippians 4:11-12, KJV

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